Tips For Being More Light Hearted

1.Atleast once a day I need to make my partner laugh.
2.Song. Its hard for me to sing and be grouchy.
3.Get More Sleep.
4.Wake up before my partner. Get organized, decide what I want to get done, make him breakfast. It will greatly improve the quality of my mornings.
5.Cut back on treats and impulse buys. Things aren't appreciated as much or as special when they aren't rare.
6.Change How I say Things-Most of the time I say things in a negative way."Stop!" "Don't!" "No!" I need to watch how I say things. Instead of,"No, I can't right now" I should say," Yes, I'll do that in Just one minute."
7.Look For Little Ways to Celebrate-Do little suprises for my partner when he does something great, something I apprecitate or something he's very proud of.
8.Repetition Works-I don't need to yell. If I ask once, he gets the point, I don't need to yell when it's not done in five minutes.
9. Only Complain When It Is Absolutely Necessary and Really Matters-You get more flies with honey than vinegar. If I constantly complain, I won't ever get anything and will only be an annoyance.
10.I Need to Remind Myself How Fleeting the Stresses and Little Things That Annoy Me Are-The days are long, but the year is short.
11.Say I Love You and How Greatful I Am Every Day-Give Praise not Complaints. Give Love not Hate. Give Understanding not Doubt.